So, I'm not all up for the cryptic messaging style that is somewhat my signature before.
I've been incredibly stressed for awhile because of the great mess of an international affaire commonly known as the visa. This little stepping stone into a country seems to be as complicated on purpose to defer those who don't have the patience to deal with it all. That is a bit of an overstatement, but that is truly how it feels for me, and I'm sure others.
I am in the USA right now, but it is the result of several misunderstanding (that I don't want to think about it too much detail just yet). So, this is more of a clarification than a real statement with any clarity.... maybe.
I will write a very detailed post a little later explaining some of the problems I've run into so that, with any hope, a passing googler can find out what the rules actually are!